I'm not born to be a good one.
And I don't believe it if anyone does.
Everybody make mistakes during their life.
But you gotta know that some mistakes are recuperated and some are not.
So if you ask me how to judge and tell from them?
Here is the criterion for this.
Before doing the shit, ask myself if I did it,
1) How do I face my boys when the world known?
2) How my boys look at me when they known?
3) And how will this world look at my boys when their Father did it ?
Then you should got the answer in your mind if you love your kids.